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Elizabeth Beggins's avatar

Erica, thank you for this luminous essay! I watched part of the video (with English subtitles!) and was moved by the way it reimagines home as something porous, shared, and always in motion.

Your reflections reminded me of a piece I revisit annually where I considered that home was the but the space we're always leaving or returning to — where pieces of our heart take root and continue growing, even in our absence. It's the opening section here (you may remember it). https://elizabethbeggins.substack.com/p/gone-back-home

I was especially struck by your line about wanting not just depth, but touch and kindness. Coccia and Krenak’s ideas — home as a moral machine, as transformation, as relationship — echo that longing beautifully. The idea that rope, not nails, holds us best. That asymmetry, not structure, is where resilience lives.

Thank you for this — for the invitation, and for opening up home as something we might offer one another. And hugs for the sadness in all this, too.

p.s. My younger offspring is in a relatively new and happy relationship w/ a handsome, young Brazilian man she met in Sydney. :)

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Robert Prince's avatar

I love this piece. I will have to go over it a few more times.

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